When you refuse to love people because they’re hard to love, you forget the fact that God always loves you, even though you’re not always easy to love.
God’s love for you is unconditional and everlasting. God loves you exactly as you are, and He loves you no matter what you do. God doesn’t love you because you are a “good” person; instead, God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8).
God is abounding in love and faithfulness (Exodus 34:6).
In 1 John 4:9-11, we are told that, because of God’s love for us, we ought to love one another: This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.
“One another” even includes those that are hard to love. Remember, God loves you even though you’re not always easy to love. Therefore, you, also, ought to love others, especially those that aren’t easy to love.